After upgrading sarge to etch - spamassassin was installed - but sa-exim wasn't running (the headers in mail showed it to be to do with the setting of SAEximRunCond stating that it should not run).
After a lot of looking at the default line in /etc/exim4/sa-exim.conf I found lower down the line:
SAEximRunCond: 0
Comment this out if you want sa-exim to run spamassassin on the mail!